Luctua

The Mourned's true appearance has been lost to time, for everyone who has seen her come to them has only seen an apparition. They say that her form is a pale blue with long, near-white hair, those things are the only things that stay constant. Some say she's of elven descent, or she's human, or any number of other races, many match the race of the person recounting the encounter. Another thing that stays constant is what she wears, long, flowy clothing with simple armour plates over her chest and on her arms and shoulders. Many people who have encountered the Mourned also say that her form shifts to match the one they lost to get a final goodbye to their loved one. The symbol of the Mourned is just a simple candle, for those who wish for her aid lay out candles to show that they need her help.