Nicolette cuts a striking figure in any room she enters, though it's not mere beauty that commands attention—it's the way she carries herself. In her early forties, she
possesses the kind of elegant poise that comes from a lifetime of knowing exactly how to present herself, yet there's an edge beneath the polish that wasn't there a decade ago.
Her reddish-blonde hair is typically styled in an artfully tousled updo, wisps escaping to frame her face in a way that suggests deliberate carelessness. Her eyes are perhaps her most arresting feature: cool, assessing, the color of winter skies. They're framed by expertly applied dark eyeshadow that gives her gaze an intensity that can be either inviting or intimidating depending on the situation. Those eyes have seen betrayal, public humiliation, and things that don't quite make sense in polite society—and they miss very little. When Nicolette looks at you, you get the distinct impression she's cataloging everything: your tells, your weaknesses, what you want and what you're hiding.
Her expression in repose often carries a slight guardedness, a poker face honed through years of society politics and sharpened by a brutal divorce. There's a set to her mouth that suggests she's learned to keep her thoughts to herself, to reveal only what she chooses to reveal. But when she smiles—truly smiles, not the practiced social smile—there's a warmth there that hints at the fierce determination and passion beneath the controlled exterior.
But it's the way she holds herself that truly defines her presence. Even in a candid moment, there's a straightness to her spine, a deliberateness to her posture that speaks of boarding school deportment classes overlaid with hard-won self-possession. She takes up space without apologizing for it—the bearing of someone who's been knocked down publicly and gotten back up, someone who's reclaimed her power and has no intention of surrendering it again. Not just because she's wealthy, though everyone knows the van Rensselaer name. They notice because she radiates the kind of poised confidence that can only come from surviving what should have destroyed you and refusing to be diminished by it.
She looks like exactly what she is: a woman who's played the game, lost spectacularly, and came back to win anyway.

rebuilding an empire from the ashes of a devastating divorce. Yet beneath that poised exterior beats the heart of a calculated risk-taker who's done playing it safe.