In many places of the House, throwing a beautiful party is an extremely expensive endeavor, sometimes completed with much pain, but not in the Free Dominions.
This is not due to the fact that celebrations on the
Upper Floor are simpler and plainer – even though
they usually are – but because the culture asks every
guest to always bring a gift, and the best gift is certainly always an appropriate amount of money to allow the
celebrated host to fulfill any wish and chase any dream.
Birthdays
During adulthood, the littlings of the Freedomes are
happy to host simple dinners for their friends and relatives, sometimes taking them to the theater or on a
boat ride, and even happier to receive hugs and bags
full of Plates and Crystals that they can reinvest in
their business or side-project, or use to make life easier
in the future.
This custom might turn up some noses,
since the rest of the Household considers it quite rude
to give money as a gift instead of useless decorative knick-knacks, but it is considered completely normal
in the Free Dominions, where even a single Plate can
be a welcome gift in some circumstances.
To give you an idea, the appropriate number of
gifts for the birthday of a child in the Freedomes is
usually around twenty, but wealthier families can get
one or two hundred presents for their children.
Weddings
Weddings on the Upper Floor are truly remarkable
occasions, but they’re certainly as plain as you’ll find
in the House. The culture of the Free Dominions is
considered more advanced when it comes to marriage,
and they accept as normal the fact that some littlings
may wish to never marry, may share a house without
being married, or may separate on good terms, and
the general public pays no mind when this happens, at
least in most cases.
Funerals
When a citizen of the Free Dominions is no more,
their family heads to one of the small cemeteries growing just outside towns to give them a proper burial. These small groves of colorful mushrooms and molds
are the symbol of life that goes on beyond death, and
are punctuated with many small grave markers made of
wood or stone, etched with the name of the deceased
so they may always be remembered.
In later years there has been a growing trend of new,
larger cemeteries opening inside the Inbetweens, as
some argue that putting more distance between the
living and the dead makes things safer and more hygienic. The truth is that the restrictive Regulation Plan
imposed by the Astraviya Treaty forced Consortia into
drastic measures and every tiny meter of buildable land
on the Upper Floor has been set aside to allow industries to grow and create new jobs. Even cemeteries had
to step aside!