Social Conduct
- The use of derogatory language or general harassment will not be tolerated within the server. Examples of derogatory language is any racist, sexist, homophobic, etc. language directed towards other community members.
- Remember most channels are available for all to see, so make sure you consider what you post or say for everyone to see. Especially when it involves other members of the server.
- While this server is an 18+ community remember that everyone has their own comfort levels in terms of content. We ask that you keep content PG-13 for the most part with more mature or explicit content being put under a spoiler tag. Additionally if others ask you to stop posting or discussing mature, contentious, or explicit topics, please respect their request. Discord has a multitude of options such as DMs or Threads that you can utilise in order to continue your discussion in a more private setting.
- Please keep distractions to a minimum when in voice chats. If you have excessive background noise please mute yourself when you're not speaking to avoid excessive distractions to other players.
Conflict Resolution
- The end goal of conflict will always be de-escalation, though what this will look like will vary depending on the conversation. Such as reframing the conversation in a more passive and less hostile tone, taking a conversation to a more private status or simply ending the conversation overall.
- If you are unable to resolve the conflict or it continues to escalate a moderator will likely have to step in and end it for you
Communication
- Everyone should strive to have open and honest communication with others on the server, as long as it adheres to the social conduct expressed in this document. In other words, claiming that you’re being honest will not absolve you of being rude.
- Some communications will be better served in private than on the server, additionally for particularly sensitive or important matters we strongly advise communicating over voice rather than in text as tone and intent is often lost in the mix.
- If you decide you need to step back from the server, please let someone know. We strive to create a caring community, which means that when players disappear, we get worried.
Safety Tools
- All players must complete the safety and consent form. Please give this form the consideration it deserves and be as thorough as possible. If at any point you need to update your responses, you can resubmit the form or contact one of the Admins to update your safety information.
- Players are expected to be familiar with the X-Card and use it as appropriate. This is a powerful safety tool that allows a player to speak up when they are feeling uncomfortable. The expectation is that the player will communicate with the gamemaster running the session to determine an appropriate way to move forward, whether that is changing the scene, allowing the player to step out of VC and pinging them to come back in when the scene is finished, etc.